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My Birthday Gift

This is my first ever, yes the first of its kind, Birthday Blog. So, with all the days happenings into the late, LATE evening I had a few things to say. When my birthday comes round it is a big deal, MY FAVORITE HOLIDAY, and of course I want to make it all about me. But, the important thing about celebrating a birthday is to give thanks to being alive, and having a blessed life with caring friends and a loving family and my Love one, MFFR. On,February 20th, I turn 25 years old,Yes,I am.I know this is my day, but also to everyone I am appreciative of having in my daily life.

I am a Pieces and my birthday six day ago, my friends and my love surprising me with ''something I've always never expected from them''. Guess what? my friends Ghafur Hasana make for me a two set couple of CupCakes for my birthday by their own self not from secrets recipes or others. Billion of thanks to you Ghafur. Ok,it is not every day that I can celebrate my birthday right, However, I still celebrate my birthday in the day that I was born. So, whats the best birthday present I have ever received?

I really never expected my love gave to me a new Guitar as my birthday gift. Oh My God, I was very very very happy. I really appreciate it. Frankly speaking, it was my best birthday ever. My love gift really made my day. My joy can't be expressed in mere words...


Thanks Ayg...I Love You the Most...


xoxo,
-RH-

 

Words of Love – From the Heart

Words of Love – From the Heart

ermmm...this is my first blog on sept 2010.(haha) I fall in Love right now.Thanks God still give me a chance. For me, Love is patient,Love is kind.It is not jealous nor conceited nor proud…” As an abstract concept, love refers to a deep feeling of tender caring for another person. It is any number of emotion and experiences related to a strong sense of affection and attachment. Love acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and is one of the creative arts most common themes. Love is classified into 4, namely: as romantic, platonic, familial and religious. The heart symbol is a traditional icon representing love.

            

Love words touches one’s heart in so many ways. It doesn’t matter if the love word recipient is a boyfriend or girlfriend, husband or wife, another love or simply a friend. Love words written in greeting or romantic cards and love letters enhances the relationship and rekindle their passion. Love words are best during Valentine’s Day, anniversaries and birthdays. Nowadays, love words are also used to exchange wedding vows.

 

Examples of love words commonly used are: 

“Honey”

“My love”

“Sweetheart”

“Dear”

“Baby”

“Forever”

“Promise”

“Love is not finding someone to live with, it’s finding someone you can’t live without.”

“I love thee, I love but thee. With a love that shall not die. Till the sun grows cold and the stars grow old.”

“Love isn’t finding the perfect person. It’s seeing an imperfect person perfectly.”

“My love is as boundless as the sea, my love is deep. The more I give thee, the more I have for both are infinite.”

“Life has never been better since you came into my life.”

“Love is a promise, love is a souvenir. Once given never forgotten, never let it disappear.

“For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.”

“If I could reach up and hold a star for every time you’ve made me smile, the entire evening sky would be in the palm of my hand.”

“The hours I spend with you I look upon as a sort of a perfumed garden, a dim twilight and a fountain singing to it. You and you alone make me feel that I am alive.  Other men it is said have seen angels, but I have seen thee and thou art enough.”

“To love is to receive a glimpse of heaven.”

“If music be the food of love, play on.”

“Come live with me and be my love, and we will all the pleasures prove. That valleys, groves, hills and fields, woods or Steep Mountain yields.”

“Love is all you need.”

“It’s never too late to fall in love.”

“Where there is love, there is life.”

“There is no remedy to love but to love more.”

“Some love lasts a lifetime. True love lasts forever.”

“If love is great and there are no greater things, then what I feel for you must be the greatest.”

“Where there is love, there are always miracles.”

“If I know what love is, it is because of you.”

“The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to let it come in.”

“I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.”

“To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.” 


Love words are one of the most romantic ways to say you love someone dearly.  It is music to their ears. But it doesn’t really matter how long or short or big or small your love words were, as long as it comes from the heart, then happiness it brings.MFFR I.L.O.V.E.Y.O.U.A.Y.G

 

-RH-

Better Man

Better Man by Pearl Jam

“Waiting’, watching’ the clock
It’s four o’clock
It’s got to stop
Tell him, take no more
She practices her speech
As he opens the door, she rolls over
Pretends to sleep as he looks her over

She lies and says she’s in love with him
Can’t find a better man
She dreams in color, she dreams in red
Can’t find a better man
Can’t find a better man
Can’t find a better man

Ohh.....
Talking’ to herself
there’s no one else who needs to know
She tells herself, oh

Memories back when she was bold and strong
And waiting for the world to come along
Swears she knew it, now she swears he’s gone

She lies and says she’s in love with him
Can’t find a better man
She dreams in color, she dreams in red
Can’t find a better man
she lies and says she still loves him
Can’t find a better man
She dreams in color, she dreams in red
Can’t find a better man
Can’t find a better man
Can’t find a better man

Yeah

She loved him, yeah
She don’t want to leave this way
She feeds him, yeah
That’s why she’ll be back again
Can’t find a better man
Can’t find a better man
Can’t find a better man
Can’t find a better man”

This song, “Better Man” by Pearl Jam is one of my favorite songs. It came out on their cd, Vitalogy, in the mid-90’s when I was in Primary school. It’s about a woman who settles for a man that doesn’t treat her right because she doesn’t think she can do any better. I think she dies of misery.

This is my biggest fear in life. To settle for something less than what makes you happy. I'm not feeling well since last two day but,i must be strong because i adult already and also my mom so far away from me(so sad).Why I’m writing this is because I was listening to this song while processing my....(haha) from my trip and it got me to thinking how much happier I was living in on there,than I have ever been at any other time in my life. I think I could find a similar level of happiness in Vegas .I had that same feeling when I was here  in july. Like I had been to heaven and didn’t want to come back down. Life doesn’t always hand us a perfect deck of cards, but there’s no reason why not to be happy. Some might refer to that as “having your head in the clouds.” But dreams do come true eventually if you make them happen. You just have to recognize the opportunities when they present themselves.

My point is that you take your chances when the windows are open. You do what you need to do for yourself, not what someone else or society thinks you should. When your windows close they rarely open back....be strong RH

Long Distance Relationship (LDR)

Long Distance Love Story

I'm always searching the Internet for stories that inspire and remind me that long-distance relationships can and do succeed. I do this so much for myself and also I'm secure in the knowledge that my LDR works and will continue to do so. I do it for those who waver in the decision whether to begin one or stay in one.For me i believe LDR because the most important things are Heart.....

Warm Hands ,Warm Heart

I read a very interesting article last two day, regarding how temperature affects our behavior and our attitude toward others -Hot Cuppa makes you feel good about others.

It started with this intriguing first line:

Our judgement of someone's character can be influenced by something as simple as the temperature of a drink held in our hands.

It went on to describe how people assessed others after holding something warm or holding something cold.

The participants assessed the person as significantly "warmer" if they had previously held the warm cup of coffee rather than the iced cup of coffee.

It went on:

In a second study, participants held heated or frozen therapeutic packs as part of a product evaluation study and then were told they could receive a gift certificate for a friend or a gift for themselves.

Those who held the hot pack were more likely to ask for the gift certificate, while those who held the frozen pack tended to keep the gift for themselves.

"It appears that the effect of physical temperature is not just on how we see others, it affects our own behaviour as well,"

"Physical warmth can make us see others as warmer people, but also cause us to be warmer - more generous and trusting - as well."

So what does all this have to do with long-distance relationships? Well, as we are painfully aware, we don't often get to share a warm embrace with our long-distance love. A great deal of our relationship takes place over the phone where it's impossible to see things like body language and facial expressions. This can sometimes lead to misunderstandings, especially when we may be stressed or tired.

Here's my personal plan, and dare I say recommendation for you to try as well. I'll make sure I have a warm drink in hand whenever there's the slightest chance that MFFR and I will have a stressful conversation. And if a regular conversation takes an unexpected and relationship-endangering turn, I'll make a fast cup of tea in the microwave. That way, I'll be able to give MFFR the benefit of the doubt and I'll be more loving in my words as well.

So why did it take researchers so long to figure out what my grandma used to say to me when I was a kid - "warm hands, warm heart"! MFFR I Love You...

Long Distance Forever?

Sometimes it seems like my long-distance relationship will remain long-distance forever. And sometimes that doesn't seem like such a bad idea. I've been on my own for so long now that I sometimes wonder if MFFR and I can really forge a life together. There are so many sacrifices to be made that it frightens me to even consider stepping off that ledge.

And then I think about how incredible it feels to be in MFFR arms. And how much I love to hear MFFR laugh. And how long I can just gaze into MFFR beautiful eyes. And I realize that somehow, we will have to find a way.

I'm inspired by a woman on my Novel who truly put it all on the line. Like the rest of us, she fell in love with someone geographically undesireable. She bravely and boldy packed up her life and moved to Maxico to be with him. I admire her spirit and hope that when the time is right, I can make the transition with as much gusto as she did.Now and forward,i speak for my self "be strong" and I've believe that MFFR have to be strong too....MFFR!!!! I.L.O.V.E.Y.O.U....You're my Life!!!!!!

I remember when we first began this relationship, I thought my heart would break every time we had to part. I counted the weeks, days, and minutes until our next visit. I truly didn't know how long I could go on feeling that way.Now let me let you know!!!!Mostly,what i've done to you are my first experience for my life.Feel blessed to God because of you MFFR!!!

I'm happy to say, that the separations have become easier to deal with. You might be thinking that it's because our love is fading. Not true! Our love is as strong and deep as ever. I would even say it's stronger than it was in the beginning because of all we have had to face to make this thing work. And that's the same reason that it's gotten easier to tolerate. We know without question that we are there for each other and we have the confidence that we can deal with anything that comes our way. And trust me, there have been BIG hurdles tossed in our path.

We still speak with each other every day and we still appreciate each other. We still treat each other with respect. We still want more for each other than we do for ourselves. These are some of the keys to a successful long-distance relationship (and any relationship, for that matter).

So for those of you who may be just starting out, take heart. I know how much it can ache to be apart. But remember, each passing day brings you closer together and it really does get easier.I love you MFFR.

-Rahmat Hidayat-

Inspirational Life story - The Gift of Life

Since last night,i was thinking again about my life,My mom,My MFFR,My Family and what is life?But then,i realize that life is a gift actually....I am not professional writer but i 'll try my best,to share my inspiration life story to all of you guys.I hope that this story giving you and your life always succeed.Remember,Life is not complicated,but you as a human make it a complicated.Always,Thanks to God because Life is a Gift........

 "Before you complain about the taste of your food,think of someone who has nothing to eat".

On the very first day, God created the cow. He said to the cow, "Today I have created you! As a cow, you must go to the field with the farmer all day long. You will work all day under the sun! I will give you a life spaof 50 years.

   The cow objected, "What? This kind of a tough life you want me to live for 50 years? Let me have 20 years, and the 30 years I'll give back to you." So God agreed. 

On the second day, God created the cat. God said to the cat, "You are supposed to do is to sit all day by the door of your house. Any people that come in, you will have to bark at them! I'll give a life span of 20 years." 

The cat objected, "What? All day long to sit by the door? No way! I give you back my other 10 years of life!" So God agreed. 

On the third day, God created the monkey. He said to the monkey, "Monkeys have to entertain people. You've got to make them laugh and do monkey tricks. I'll give you 20 years life span." 

The monkey objected. "What? Make them laugh? Do monkey faces and tricks? Ten years will do, and the other 10 years I'll give you back." So God agreed. 

On the fourth day, God created man and said to him, "Your job is to sleep, eat, and play. You will enjoy very much in your life. All you need to do is to enjoy and do nothing. This kind of life, I'll give you a 20 year life span." 

The man objected. "What? Such a good life! Eat, play, sleep, do nothing? Enjoy the best and you expect me to live only for 20 years? No way, man!....Why don't we make a deal? Since the cow gave you back 30 years, and the cat gave you back 10 years and the monkey gave you back 10 years, I will take them from you! That makes my life span 70 years, right?" So God agreed. 

AND THAT'S WHY.... In our first 20 years, we eat, sleep, play, enjoy the best and do nothing much. For the next 30 years, we work all day long, suffer and get to support the family. For the next 10 years, we entertain our grandchildren by making monkey faces and monkey tricks. And for the last 10 years, we stay at home, sit by the front door and bark at people!

"life is a gift,live it,enjoy it,celebrate it,fulfill it''

-Rahmat Hidayat-