Words of Love – From the Heart

Words of Love – From the Heart

ermmm...this is my first blog on sept 2010.(haha) I fall in Love right now.Thanks God still give me a chance. For me, Love is patient,Love is kind.It is not jealous nor conceited nor proud…” As an abstract concept, love refers to a deep feeling of tender caring for another person. It is any number of emotion and experiences related to a strong sense of affection and attachment. Love acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and is one of the creative arts most common themes. Love is classified into 4, namely: as romantic, platonic, familial and religious. The heart symbol is a traditional icon representing love.

            

Love words touches one’s heart in so many ways. It doesn’t matter if the love word recipient is a boyfriend or girlfriend, husband or wife, another love or simply a friend. Love words written in greeting or romantic cards and love letters enhances the relationship and rekindle their passion. Love words are best during Valentine’s Day, anniversaries and birthdays. Nowadays, love words are also used to exchange wedding vows.

 

Examples of love words commonly used are: 

“Honey”

“My love”

“Sweetheart”

“Dear”

“Baby”

“Forever”

“Promise”

“Love is not finding someone to live with, it’s finding someone you can’t live without.”

“I love thee, I love but thee. With a love that shall not die. Till the sun grows cold and the stars grow old.”

“Love isn’t finding the perfect person. It’s seeing an imperfect person perfectly.”

“My love is as boundless as the sea, my love is deep. The more I give thee, the more I have for both are infinite.”

“Life has never been better since you came into my life.”

“Love is a promise, love is a souvenir. Once given never forgotten, never let it disappear.

“For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.”

“If I could reach up and hold a star for every time you’ve made me smile, the entire evening sky would be in the palm of my hand.”

“The hours I spend with you I look upon as a sort of a perfumed garden, a dim twilight and a fountain singing to it. You and you alone make me feel that I am alive.  Other men it is said have seen angels, but I have seen thee and thou art enough.”

“To love is to receive a glimpse of heaven.”

“If music be the food of love, play on.”

“Come live with me and be my love, and we will all the pleasures prove. That valleys, groves, hills and fields, woods or Steep Mountain yields.”

“Love is all you need.”

“It’s never too late to fall in love.”

“Where there is love, there is life.”

“There is no remedy to love but to love more.”

“Some love lasts a lifetime. True love lasts forever.”

“If love is great and there are no greater things, then what I feel for you must be the greatest.”

“Where there is love, there are always miracles.”

“If I know what love is, it is because of you.”

“The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to let it come in.”

“I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.”

“To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.” 


Love words are one of the most romantic ways to say you love someone dearly.  It is music to their ears. But it doesn’t really matter how long or short or big or small your love words were, as long as it comes from the heart, then happiness it brings.MFFR I.L.O.V.E.Y.O.U.A.Y.G

 

-RH-

Better Man

Better Man by Pearl Jam

“Waiting’, watching’ the clock
It’s four o’clock
It’s got to stop
Tell him, take no more
She practices her speech
As he opens the door, she rolls over
Pretends to sleep as he looks her over

She lies and says she’s in love with him
Can’t find a better man
She dreams in color, she dreams in red
Can’t find a better man
Can’t find a better man
Can’t find a better man

Ohh.....
Talking’ to herself
there’s no one else who needs to know
She tells herself, oh

Memories back when she was bold and strong
And waiting for the world to come along
Swears she knew it, now she swears he’s gone

She lies and says she’s in love with him
Can’t find a better man
She dreams in color, she dreams in red
Can’t find a better man
she lies and says she still loves him
Can’t find a better man
She dreams in color, she dreams in red
Can’t find a better man
Can’t find a better man
Can’t find a better man

Yeah

She loved him, yeah
She don’t want to leave this way
She feeds him, yeah
That’s why she’ll be back again
Can’t find a better man
Can’t find a better man
Can’t find a better man
Can’t find a better man”

This song, “Better Man” by Pearl Jam is one of my favorite songs. It came out on their cd, Vitalogy, in the mid-90’s when I was in Primary school. It’s about a woman who settles for a man that doesn’t treat her right because she doesn’t think she can do any better. I think she dies of misery.

This is my biggest fear in life. To settle for something less than what makes you happy. I'm not feeling well since last two day but,i must be strong because i adult already and also my mom so far away from me(so sad).Why I’m writing this is because I was listening to this song while processing my....(haha) from my trip and it got me to thinking how much happier I was living in on there,than I have ever been at any other time in my life. I think I could find a similar level of happiness in Vegas .I had that same feeling when I was here  in july. Like I had been to heaven and didn’t want to come back down. Life doesn’t always hand us a perfect deck of cards, but there’s no reason why not to be happy. Some might refer to that as “having your head in the clouds.” But dreams do come true eventually if you make them happen. You just have to recognize the opportunities when they present themselves.

My point is that you take your chances when the windows are open. You do what you need to do for yourself, not what someone else or society thinks you should. When your windows close they rarely open back....be strong RH

Long Distance Relationship (LDR)

Long Distance Love Story

I'm always searching the Internet for stories that inspire and remind me that long-distance relationships can and do succeed. I do this so much for myself and also I'm secure in the knowledge that my LDR works and will continue to do so. I do it for those who waver in the decision whether to begin one or stay in one.For me i believe LDR because the most important things are Heart.....

Warm Hands ,Warm Heart

I read a very interesting article last two day, regarding how temperature affects our behavior and our attitude toward others -Hot Cuppa makes you feel good about others.

It started with this intriguing first line:

Our judgement of someone's character can be influenced by something as simple as the temperature of a drink held in our hands.

It went on to describe how people assessed others after holding something warm or holding something cold.

The participants assessed the person as significantly "warmer" if they had previously held the warm cup of coffee rather than the iced cup of coffee.

It went on:

In a second study, participants held heated or frozen therapeutic packs as part of a product evaluation study and then were told they could receive a gift certificate for a friend or a gift for themselves.

Those who held the hot pack were more likely to ask for the gift certificate, while those who held the frozen pack tended to keep the gift for themselves.

"It appears that the effect of physical temperature is not just on how we see others, it affects our own behaviour as well,"

"Physical warmth can make us see others as warmer people, but also cause us to be warmer - more generous and trusting - as well."

So what does all this have to do with long-distance relationships? Well, as we are painfully aware, we don't often get to share a warm embrace with our long-distance love. A great deal of our relationship takes place over the phone where it's impossible to see things like body language and facial expressions. This can sometimes lead to misunderstandings, especially when we may be stressed or tired.

Here's my personal plan, and dare I say recommendation for you to try as well. I'll make sure I have a warm drink in hand whenever there's the slightest chance that MFFR and I will have a stressful conversation. And if a regular conversation takes an unexpected and relationship-endangering turn, I'll make a fast cup of tea in the microwave. That way, I'll be able to give MFFR the benefit of the doubt and I'll be more loving in my words as well.

So why did it take researchers so long to figure out what my grandma used to say to me when I was a kid - "warm hands, warm heart"! MFFR I Love You...

Long Distance Forever?

Sometimes it seems like my long-distance relationship will remain long-distance forever. And sometimes that doesn't seem like such a bad idea. I've been on my own for so long now that I sometimes wonder if MFFR and I can really forge a life together. There are so many sacrifices to be made that it frightens me to even consider stepping off that ledge.

And then I think about how incredible it feels to be in MFFR arms. And how much I love to hear MFFR laugh. And how long I can just gaze into MFFR beautiful eyes. And I realize that somehow, we will have to find a way.

I'm inspired by a woman on my Novel who truly put it all on the line. Like the rest of us, she fell in love with someone geographically undesireable. She bravely and boldy packed up her life and moved to Maxico to be with him. I admire her spirit and hope that when the time is right, I can make the transition with as much gusto as she did.Now and forward,i speak for my self "be strong" and I've believe that MFFR have to be strong too....MFFR!!!! I.L.O.V.E.Y.O.U....You're my Life!!!!!!

I remember when we first began this relationship, I thought my heart would break every time we had to part. I counted the weeks, days, and minutes until our next visit. I truly didn't know how long I could go on feeling that way.Now let me let you know!!!!Mostly,what i've done to you are my first experience for my life.Feel blessed to God because of you MFFR!!!

I'm happy to say, that the separations have become easier to deal with. You might be thinking that it's because our love is fading. Not true! Our love is as strong and deep as ever. I would even say it's stronger than it was in the beginning because of all we have had to face to make this thing work. And that's the same reason that it's gotten easier to tolerate. We know without question that we are there for each other and we have the confidence that we can deal with anything that comes our way. And trust me, there have been BIG hurdles tossed in our path.

We still speak with each other every day and we still appreciate each other. We still treat each other with respect. We still want more for each other than we do for ourselves. These are some of the keys to a successful long-distance relationship (and any relationship, for that matter).

So for those of you who may be just starting out, take heart. I know how much it can ache to be apart. But remember, each passing day brings you closer together and it really does get easier.I love you MFFR.

-Rahmat Hidayat-

Inspirational Life story - The Gift of Life

Since last night,i was thinking again about my life,My mom,My MFFR,My Family and what is life?But then,i realize that life is a gift actually....I am not professional writer but i 'll try my best,to share my inspiration life story to all of you guys.I hope that this story giving you and your life always succeed.Remember,Life is not complicated,but you as a human make it a complicated.Always,Thanks to God because Life is a Gift........

 "Before you complain about the taste of your food,think of someone who has nothing to eat".

On the very first day, God created the cow. He said to the cow, "Today I have created you! As a cow, you must go to the field with the farmer all day long. You will work all day under the sun! I will give you a life spaof 50 years.

   The cow objected, "What? This kind of a tough life you want me to live for 50 years? Let me have 20 years, and the 30 years I'll give back to you." So God agreed. 

On the second day, God created the cat. God said to the cat, "You are supposed to do is to sit all day by the door of your house. Any people that come in, you will have to bark at them! I'll give a life span of 20 years." 

The cat objected, "What? All day long to sit by the door? No way! I give you back my other 10 years of life!" So God agreed. 

On the third day, God created the monkey. He said to the monkey, "Monkeys have to entertain people. You've got to make them laugh and do monkey tricks. I'll give you 20 years life span." 

The monkey objected. "What? Make them laugh? Do monkey faces and tricks? Ten years will do, and the other 10 years I'll give you back." So God agreed. 

On the fourth day, God created man and said to him, "Your job is to sleep, eat, and play. You will enjoy very much in your life. All you need to do is to enjoy and do nothing. This kind of life, I'll give you a 20 year life span." 

The man objected. "What? Such a good life! Eat, play, sleep, do nothing? Enjoy the best and you expect me to live only for 20 years? No way, man!....Why don't we make a deal? Since the cow gave you back 30 years, and the cat gave you back 10 years and the monkey gave you back 10 years, I will take them from you! That makes my life span 70 years, right?" So God agreed. 

AND THAT'S WHY.... In our first 20 years, we eat, sleep, play, enjoy the best and do nothing much. For the next 30 years, we work all day long, suffer and get to support the family. For the next 10 years, we entertain our grandchildren by making monkey faces and monkey tricks. And for the last 10 years, we stay at home, sit by the front door and bark at people!

"life is a gift,live it,enjoy it,celebrate it,fulfill it''

-Rahmat Hidayat-

Spice Girls - Mama

Why Are Jews So Smart

Why Are Jews So Smart?

The question has intrigued and baffled researchers for centuries. We all know people who defy the stereotype, yet it persists, demanding our attention. It leaves us wondering whether there is validity to the widespread belief that Jews are so much smarter than other people.

But there can be little doubt that Jews have for centuries been substantially over-represented in many fields of learning and accomplishment. One must wonder, how could such a tiny, numerically insignificant group produce so many of the world’s smartest, most accomplished, and most influential people?

Jews comprise an amazing number of history’s most important figures, people who have had a profound impact on humanity: the Patriarch Abraham, whose life and teachings are considered sacred by Jews, Christians, and Moslems; Moses, the lawgiver to Jews and Christians; Jesus and his disciple, Paul, who founded and spread Christianity.Looking back into the 20^th century alone, one can clearly see that Jews have played many a key role in shaping the modern world (if not always in a positive way): physicist Albert Einstein; the father of psychoanalysis, Sigmund Freud; Communism’s Karl Marx; developers of the polio vaccine Dr’s Jonas Salk and Albert Sabin; and the leading developers of the first atomic bomb, as inspired by Einstein’s theories – among them, Felix Bloch, Niels Bohr, Otto Frisch, Robert Oppenheimer, Leo Szilard, and Edward Teller. Indeed, Jews were so dominant in the field of nuclear physics in Europe throughout the 1930’s that it was often referred to as “Jewish physics.”

There is even some evidence of Elvis’ having Jewish ancestry!Jews may not be history’s most popular people, but no other group has even come close to matching, proportionally, Jewish abilities and accomplishments. Combined with other commonly perceived Jewish traits such as ambition, curiosity, energy, imagination, and persistence, Jewish intelligence has elevated an incredible number of Jews to the top ranks of various fields. 

Consider the following: 

***The proportion of Jews with IQ’s of 140 or more is estimated to be about six times the proportion of any other ethnic group.

*** Although Jews constitute only about two-tenths of one percent of the world’s population, Jews won 29 percent of the Nobel Prizes in literature, medicine, physics and chemistry in the second half of the 20^th century. So far this century, the figure is 32 percent. And these Jews of whom we speak were almost exclusively male Jews primarily of western European ancestry (less than one-tenth of one percent of the world’s population), in spite of pervasive discrimination, numerous legal barriers, frequent persecution, and the Holocaust.

***From 1870 until 1950, Jewish leadership in such fields as literature, music, visual arts, biology, chemistry, physics, mathematics, and philosophy equaled somewhere from four to fourteen times the Jewish proportion of the population in Europe and North America.

***In 1954, 28 children in the New York City public school system were found to have IQ’s of 170 or higher – 24 of these were Jewish.And, of course, the extraordinarily high proportion of Jews in such fields as medicine, law, finance, literature, science, creative arts and the media is as obvious as it is astonishing. To some, these facts are awkward and even embarrassing, feeding stereotypes of “crafty” and “clever” Jews good at making money and flaunting their superiority to non-Jews. Indeed, the subject – the fact, if you will now allow -- of Jewish intellectual superiority is rarely if ever discussed in Jewish publications.To explain this, we have a self-described “Scots-Irish gentile from Iowa,” Charles Murray of the American Enterprise Institute, author of the solidly documented “The Bell Curve”, which in 1994 stirred up a storm of controversy by discussing in not always politically correct language “differences in intellectual capacity among people and groups, and what those differences mean for America’s future.” 

Murray has recently written a brilliant and convincing essay for the respected Jewish publication “Commentary,” on “Jewish Genius,” citing many of the above facts and material on which this article is based . This is the first time the magazine has systematically discussed this normally taboo topic that so many Jews are reluctant publicly to acknowledge.

Murray observes that the two most influential works of literature ever were written by and about Jews: the Hebrew and the Christian bibles, the so-called Old and New Testaments, and he goes on to cite numerous other examples of what can only be called Jewish intellectual supremacy.Murray argues persuasively that “elevated Jewish intelligence is grounded in genetics” rather than being environmentally caused (by such factors as having books in the home), and that it is ‘substantially heritable.” And Jews, especially the Ashkenazim of central and western Europe, have been engaging for centuries in what basically amounts to selective mating and merging genes to produce children of high intelligence.The Talmud (Pesahim 49a) says that “A man should sell all he possesses in order to marry the daughter of a scholar, as well as marry his daughter to a scholar.” In the Jewish community of the Middle Ages, the smartest men often became rabbis, and these learned men of high status were able to marry the daughters of successful merchants, thus “selecting” in favor of high intelligence.

At the same time, Christians were doing just the opposite: priests and monks of the dominant Roman Catholic Church – also usually among the best and brightest in their communities– were prohibited from marrying, thus “selecting out” through celibacy most of these intellectually superior men from the gene pool.Murray also observes that “Sephardi Jews rose to distinction in many of the countries where they settled. Some economic historians have traced the decline of Spain after 1500 [following the expulsion of the Jews], and the subsequent rise of the Netherlands, in part to the Sephardi commercial talent that was transferred from one to the other.”Murray’s scholarly and extensively documented article cites many other reasons for Jewish intellectual superiority in verbal and reasoning skills, including two crucial factors, which are often overlooked.The most important of these can be found in an article entitled, “Jewish Occupational Selection,” and written by two scholars, Maristella Botticini and Zvi Eckstein. They focus on a decree issued in 64 C.E. by the martyred sage Joshua ben Gamla, high priest in the last years of the Second Temple, requiring that all males be enrolled in school by age six. The ordinance was largely adhered to, and, in the words of Murray, “Within about a century, the Jews, uniquely among the peoples of the world, had effectively established universal male literacy and numeracy.”Moreover, throughout the centuries, Jewish males have had to study and learn the law, a process one never completes, and to read –often aloud in public -- in order to practice their faith and teach their children. Murray speculates that many Jews of low intelligence, who could not read well or fulfill the intellectual demands of their religion, tended to drift away from it.

Murray also cites a thesis of the geneticist Cyril Darlington, arguing that Jews were“decisively shaped much earlier,” during the period of the fall of Jerusalem and captivity under Babylonian King Nebuchadnezzar in 586 B.C.E. According to the Bible (2 Kings 24:10-14), only the elite among the Israelites were taken to Babylon, leaving behind the unskilled and presumably less intelligent. The king “carried away all Jerusalem, and all the princes, and all the mighty men of valour… and all the craftsmen and the smiths; none remained, save the poorest sort of the people of the land.” 

By the time the Israelites returned more than a century later, many of those who had remained had been killed off or had married foreigners and been absorbed by other peoples. The returned exiles reconstituted a Jewish community comprised largely of descendants of its most intelligent members. Ever since, practicing Jews have continued to try to perpetuate their “ethnic purity,” usually marrying within their own group, and resisting intermarriage with and assimilation by their neighbors.But, still not satisfied by the evidence he so impressively presents, Murray continues to wonder about the intellectual prowess demonstrated from the very beginning by the Jewish people. “Why should one particular tribe at the time of Moses, living in the same environment as other nomadic and agricultural peoples of the Middle East, have already evolved elevated intelligence when others did not?”

The answer, speculates Murray, may be his “happily irrefutable’ hypothesis, drawn from the Jews’ earliest and most famous literary work: “The Jews are God’s chosen people.”

Crazeecausa a.k.a Crazeecausa Matt

Crazeecausa is my brand name as a music lover.Crazeecausa meaning that are Crazee + Califonia +U.S.A = Crazeecausa.This Brand as u notice that from United State.Crazeecausa brand also for sketers.I know it,who are a Sketers and Music lover will know better about Crazeecausa  brand.Via this brand,crazeecausa produce a lot of t-shirt,scaft,beg,lap top beg,short n long pant and many more.I love this brand so much.Crazeecausa for me have a sentimental value and memorable into my whole life.However,life must go on guys.

First and foremost,I'm new here guys.My name is Rahmat Hidayat Mohd Nor.I am 24 years old.Currently,I'm still studying at Universiti in Malaysia.I was happy with my life now.Thanks God,still give me a chance to live with "RahmatMU'' I'll blessed My Lords, what You gave to me.My lesson past,a lot chance me up to be a good person and better person right now.I've prove it!!Now I'll believe that words ''People Change" and now I can feel it because I know who I am.

I am ordinary person like u guys,quite adventurous but up to certain point,not that extreme,and I came from ordinary family as well.My life is "simple''.If I have,I can say I have but If I doesn't have I'll say it ''doesn't have''.I believe that people around me know me better because for me YES or NO that a simple words I always said that.I hate complicated because I always remember what my mom said to me before ''Life is not complicated but People make a complicated in this life'' U can take what you deserve!!!!!!!! Thanks mom,you always stand by me.

About me:My friends call me yat@Hidayat,my mom call me ''adik''(very funny right) haha...and my Lecturer call me Rahmat.So sweet when I'd heard that..hahaha!!I really love my mom because she is my heart and my MFFR too!!!hehe...I've five elders brother's and two elders sister's and me at the last sibling on my family as well.I am a person who love Art,a big fan of Musics, love movies, and love all beautiful things.Mostly I would love all the Hollywood movies and musics.I'm independent person and stronger person as a man because since I'm Three years old my late father pass away.Now,im 24 years old.U can imagine what i've felt when i seeing my friends have a fathers and the most I'll always sad during "Fathers Days" guys.But then,I always positive because this is what Allah destiny to me.I'm blessed because My late father is pass away but then God giving me five elders brother's and two elders sister's to me.I was happy with my brothers and my sister's as well.I always speak for myself ''Rahmat Hidayat you must be strong'' because you never know what happen next.

to be continue......

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you're my life MFFR